Aalana Kane

[QUOTE=rumble11;12285113][QUOTE=BOB ONTHIS;12284796]So we are just supposed to go in blind and likely be disappointed a large percentage of the time?

Fuck that, I would rather quit.

Let's see, many of us have been asking for specifics for at least 11 years with no problems....so far.

So, either you ask, wing it, or better yet stick with a provider that you KNOW offers the services you desire.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=mydarkside;12285079]besides the pretty vanilla reviews and activities I hate discussing I'm open to ideas that don't involve asking specific questions. I mean I can make virtually anything work (and there is much ymmv involved) but we're two pages in and the best advice to date is to rub two brain cells together sigh[/QUOTE]

*Sigh* is right. Ok. Here’s your list-

1. Provider Reviews
2. Provider likes/dislikes
3. Provider Posts
4. Providers “about me” section
5. Hobbiest “about me” section (list what you like and ask the provider to look and see if she is a match)
6. The ability to PM other Hobbits to ask for more info on the sly
7. A QV to test the waters. After your willy is in someone’s mouth, you can ask lots of questions.
8. Write an ISO detailing what fantasy you like to discuss.
9. Read the ISO’s to see who responds
10.Search posts about specific topics you are interested in and see who posts on them
11. Check to see if the provider has a website with clearer description of activities enjoyed.
12. Actually go that website and read it.

If none of this works....ur fu*ked (not in a fun way) sorry mate.[/QUOTE]