Fetishes/BDSM

So I have been doing this awhile and one thing I have always wished is that there was more of a fetish and BDSM presence on here...mostly because I am lazy, I know there are sites out there for someone with my skill set in these areas...so here I am.

Can a true BDSM relationship exist in this environment...ABSOLUTELY!!! As a natural switch who prefers sub to Dom, but mostly finds herself in the driver's seat...I know how hard it is to find the right person to work with. If your person doesn't get you to sub space, or even knows what what means...you need a different person...

A common misconception is that it is the Dominant who just takes what they want and it is about THEIR satisfaction alone...NOTHING COULD BE FURTHER FROM THE TRUTH! Another thing I know from my wandering is that it isnt like sex or pizza, a bad BDSM experience can be very damaging so when it is bad, it isnt good...as a sub, it is hard not to grasp at a Dominant just to feel something...once you have worked with someone who is adept at what they do, bad pizza will never cut it again! I personally have always struggled to find a good Master as a sub, so I do understand!

I think the most important thing is to have fun in life, find reasons to smile each day, and be a good person to all you come in contact with...especially now! I hope to start a good discussion here! Thanks for stopping by!

Jade!
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