MissGwen

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Ladies have varying policies about being used as a reference, including how they prefer providers to contact them or whether they even wish to be contacted for a reference at all. I want to explain my preferences and policies to both the gentlemen and the ladies so you know what you can expect regarding using me as a reference or requesting one.

[B][U][CENTER]GENTLEMEN - Using me as a reference[/CENTER][/U][/B][LIST][*]I [B][I]exclusively[/I][/B] use the vouch/whitelist system on this board, TER & P411 as the [B][I]only[/I][/B] way I provide a reference and I give a "whitelist" to every gentleman I've seen that I would recommend to another provider from the board they contact me on, but please mention you'd like a vouch to remind me should I forget. I will not respond to reference requests from providers, other than to suggest she look for a vouch/whitelist from me, for several reasons...the biggest being that it seems inefficient to spread the news about how awesome you are to one person at a time when with one click I can tell the entire world for as long as the internet lives. [*]If you use me as a reference anyway, please make sure to make a positive impression during our time together. Because my very company is for hire, you can reasonably expect I'll have a pleasant attitude and keep my opinions to myself and if a date is not going smoothly it's not always worth it to battle you and risk a negative review. I may simply prefer to DNS-list you instead. You may never know how I really feel about you until one day you find you can't seem to book a date, if you mistakenly believe that hiring me means you've bought my recommendation,. Providers have had horror stories about clients seeking a reference from them and I have been contacted for a reference after an obviously disastrous date (a client once shorted me several hundred dollars and then used me as a reference!) so please know that we will not recommend someone we found disappointing. Simply having a date with a lady doesn't mean she will give you a glowing recommendation, and I don't recommend using anyone as a reference unless you're certain that's what she'll do.[*]I can't tell you how many times I've had to decline a date because none of your references will return my request. If you have vouches, you instantly pass screening and you can see me instantly - no waiting for ladies to get back to me. Get providers to vouch for you![*]If you have no choice but to have me contact references, please provide everything I need to do so. Simply giving me a list of the usernames of girls you've seen makes it likely I'll move on to the next email. There are too frequently typos in your message that make it impossible for me to find them. I'm not going to spend hours emailing back and forth with you to get the info I need. Give me their contact info so I can reach them, and something that will jog their memory about you. Do not assume she will know who you are. Divide her rates by what it costs the average person to live and you'll get an idea how many clients she has to see to get by. It's not personal, just the nature of the biz.[/LIST]

[CENTER][B][U]LADIES - Verifying clients[/U][/B][/CENTER]
[LIST][*]I'll make this short and sweet. My memory has turned to shit after a car accident three years ago. I do not remember clients and therefore can not in good conscience provide a reference for someone I don't remember. I do not give the go ahead just because I've seen someone, but only if I would see them again, and the best way to determine that is if I've vouched for them - which I do immediately after a date while it's fresh in my memory. Rest assured that if he has a vouch from me, he is safe and respectful. You do not have to contact me to "make sure" he is. I do not take giving vouches lightly and I generally do not respond to inquiries.[*]I do not know why we don't use this system more. I'm sure it's not convenient to have to dig through our phones every time another provider wants to see a client. I know I find it a bit intrusive when there's a better way, and I'm sure you've noticed that a lot of providers don't even respond, putting you in the position of having to decline the date or seeing an unverified client. Please give vouches [I]whether they ask for one or not[/I] and you will save yourself from doing the legwork so another provider can make a few bucks. Yes we should all work together to make sure we are all safe but it's obvious hunting down references is not the best way to accomplish this.[/LIST]

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