[FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=4] Ladies have varying policies about being used as a reference, including how they prefer providers to contact them or whether they even wish to be contacted for a reference at all. I want to explain my preferences and policies to both the gentlemen and the ladies so you know what you can expect regarding using me as a reference or requesting one. [B][U][CENTER]GENTLEMEN - Using me as a reference[/CENTER][/U][/B][LIST][*]I [B][I]exclusively[/I][/B] ...