Harlow

I often get PM's from both providers & hobbyists asking me what a 'Specific Term' on the site means. In this particular post I'm addressing 'Lessons'.... But most of my answer & instructions would remain the same regardless of the 'Term'. As always this blog is meant to be helpful and is based on my personal experiences.. Others may have completely different opinions. Variety is the spice of life ❤❤❤

So without further adieu, let's tackle the question of what 'OFFERS LESSONS' means.

This is a bit of a tricky question, because like so many other things in this hobby, the answer will differ from provider to provider.

To some it means that they're happy to teach you how to navigate the site & the hobby itself. The TNA-Verse is an Exciting, albeit Complicated place. I've spent almost an entire hour massage session demystifying this place to new friends. There are so many rules & protocols to adapt to here, it can be extremely daunting without a guide to help you navigate. I consider myself a Wayfinder lol. But that certainly wasn't always the case.

To others, it may mean that they're willing to teach you new more adventurous parts of intimacy, have patience for you to explore uncharted territory, help you push boundaries, or even to help guide you in fulfilling fantasies. To many, this can be difficult to attempt in their 'civilian' lives.

As with most things here & in the hobby, my BEST Advice is to Politely & Respectfully ask for clarification from the provider you're interested in seeing. You could start with a PM (assuming you fill all their other screening requirements), and just let them know that you're new to the hobby & if they could help define what the 'term' meant to them so you can proceed accordingly.

Another option, especially if you're Hoping to find a specific 'lesson', or 'activity', is to post a request in the ISO SECTION. Try to be as clear as possible about your expectations, while still being discreet & non vulgar. Then the providers who feel they can fullfil your request can contact you directly.

Hope this is helpful

Sorry I can't give you a more definitive answer. But as I explained above, I only speak for myself. I certainly don't represent the community as a whole.

Nameste ❤